Question by Confucious Say…: She cast some strange…..sexual spell on my husband?
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Is that the reasoning YOU use when your otherwise “good ” man cheats on you?
Do you rationalize what he did by blaming the “other woman”–in essence, do you create a delusion for him to hide behind OR give him an OPPORTUNITY to tell you a better LIE than the one he got caught in?
Isnt this what women REALLY want when they get cheated on or dumped and they claim they need “closure” ?
Dont you really just want him to come up with a better lie? a lie-that will lull you “back to sleep” and essentially ignore the reality of your situation–giving him the opportunity to do it AGAIN?
Im surprised at some of the “male” responses…y’all seem to be upset. Why? Because Im alerting women to information they would only receive for themselves in counseling…Im telling on you…
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no its natural its gonna happen to everyone thats when you have to jagg-off orr…. you can live with it lol but no its natural 😉
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There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you and most 13 year olds feel this way. Some are hornier then others while others aren’t that horny. Don’t worry about it!!
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Omgg. dude that’s bad.
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haha, nope
and it will keep happening all throughout puberty, I’m 19 and it still is, lol
just get yourself a good dirty magazine my boy
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its normal…but its better if you can battle it out and try not to think that way, because you turn into a big perve dat no girl wants to be around.
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It’s completely normal
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1020 (Level 3) no its natural its gonna happen to everyone thats when you have to jagg-off orr…. you can live with it lol but no its natural 😉
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There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you and most 13 year olds feel this way. Some are hornier then others while others aren’t that horny. Don’t worry about it!!
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AND WTF?
Give your answer to this question below!
No. Not really.
Confucius Say…How many times you going to ask the same questions over and over again
Um…. No?
You are in desperate need of psychotherapy.
Ambused!!! Run away! Angry woman!
Where is the question here?
Your question seems to be rhetorical, how would you like me to answer it?
What are you talking about? My husband doesn’t cheat on me, and if he did, I would blame him.
I agree completely, what’s the point in blaming the other woman/man? They didn’t promise you they’d be faithful and commit their lives to you. The other woman is morally wrong but you weren’t married to her so why waste energy solely blaming her, the cheater still has self control and CHOSE to cheat,
Seth.
If this happend I would get mad as hell at my husband along with the women. I’d tell him I hope he loves her cause he’s done with me. And I better not see her!
I’ll stick with my answer I gave to your earlier question, which was similar.
Your spouse is the one who took the vow to you, not the other man/woman. Be angry with your spouse. Sure, the other man/woman is wrong if they knew your spouse was married, but your SPOUSE is the one who said vows to you.
Absolutely not! I would blame my man not – the other woman. Unless that other woman was a friend of mine – then I would be pissed at both of them.
Wow you need a hobby besides sleeping with other women’s husbands!
Confucius say woman that fly up side down like air plane will have CRACKUP
If I ever had an affair and my wife found out she could give a rat’s anus about ‘the other woman’. She’d be dealing strictly with me as she would consider the ‘other woman’ classified as lower than a common street walker.
I’d be the one in considerable danger….not her.
She did??????? And then what happened??? ^¿^
Sorry for your loss!
People will always lie when caught doing something wrong when there are consequences that they don’t want to pay.
Have someone cast a love spell on him that makes him stay with you.
Tell him about it. Tell him his thing will fall off from the spell…if he cheats.
Hey – he’s the one that started the spell excuses…
Is it the same spell that makes you keep asking this over and over?
I knew there was something
lol Actually she cast some ‘strange sexual spell’ on his Mr. Happy and he let Mr. Happy dictate his behavior…because he wanted to…simple as that.
I’ve never delt with sexual infidelity in my last marriage or my current one because it has not happened….my first marriage ended for other reasons and my husband is a very trustworthy, old fashioned gentleman however….
If the man cheats it’s because he CHOSES TO. It is no reflection on me either but a complete reflection of HIS LACK OF SELF CONTROL AND MORALS. period……so any excuse he comes up with would be met with stoney silence and a finger pointed to the nearest exit.
No second chances either. I put the blame as 75% him & 25% her…..SHE is not worth bothering with……HE becomes history.