brat whining and pining about the so-called hardship and/or dislike/disapproval of present details enmeshed. But, the involvements (relationships) in your situation have been precariously selected to perform a multifarious function not unlike the liver which enables the heart to pump purified blood. The act of purification is a vital component of your animated deluge.
You erroneously believe there is another set of circumstances you may join or create. {Much better to your specific liking or more adjacent to your elevated stature.} False.
You must walk through the seemingly barren to reach that which you deem productive. The hideously alluring hypnotizing notion that you can do something ‘different’ other than what you are currently doing is notoriously debilitating. In defense, you rise up in jabbing declaration: “But, I am not happy nor are my talents being utilized. I am not appreciated, acknowledged for who and what I really am. He/she doesn’t love me like I deserve to be loved. I’m suffocating here; I feel like a dry piece of wood. I need more money and if I leave (doing something else) I can get more money. I’m not doing anything. I’m not following my passion or reaching my potential. My talents are being wasted. I need to be free to pursue what I love.” Bull shit! Everybody’s got a story, so what? You absolutely can not leave a situation until it is time. {For lack of better word}
Don’t let your eyes betray you. What you are currently observing is NOT what is going on. Furthermore, you are incapable of dissecting the events laid before you. Unable to draw an unpolluted unself-serving breath, you are incapable of dissecting the self-gratifying emotionally laden dramatic scenario. You do not possess